Why are we wrong?
What makes a man make mistakes? whether the current state, feelings or influence has the environment in which it is located. Do some events that happened in a recent or distant past also have an influence, or does man carry the burden of events from some future on his soul. One must understand that the problem is not a problem in itself, the problem has a great influence on us in the way we accept or experience it. The biggest mistake a person makes is that we take out our problems on other people and even those who are very close to us, so after a while he himself realizes that he is making a big mistake. This does not mean that a person should live without problems, because we learn something new from every problem, unpleasant situation, mistakes. Life without problems is impossible to live. The loss of a loved one, or someone close to you, is the greatest pain a person can experience, and the very thought of that loss carries great pain. You should feel sorry for someone, but a person should also not deny himself a desire for life. Life goes on as ugly as it sounds. Live life and breathe to the fullest.
the power of acceptance
Every man can control his current feelings, if you feel winter in your soul, let a hint of sunshine reach your soul, melt all the snow and dispel the winter. Sometimes even small things can change our mood, a smile on the face of a loved one destroys everything negatively. Sometimes we have the feeling that life is difficult, that the work we do is difficult, that the others are not fair to us, but when they stood on the sidelines and looked at themselves, they would notice more good things than bad things. They would agree with themselves that we are not in such a difficult situation.
Love as an anchor
Love is man’s best friend and it destroys all problems, sometimes we are not aware of how much power it has. However, love sometimes has difficult moments. Sometimes we forget about it and allow negative thoughts to break down the wall of love and those negative thoughts are the drivers of obstacles and quarrels. You have to be careful, a person occasionally loses control over words, so he says very harsh words or does very awful things that lead two people to part. And there is nothing more difficult than being a witness to an argument or breaking a love relationship. Sometimes I think that a person should twitch at certain moments, stop the time around him, get out of his skin for a moment, analyze his current actions and make the right decision in his head before saying it. The key to any successful relationship is open conversations, revealing secrets and with each other you must be honest and talk about your common goal in life. And the biggest gift a couple can give themselves are children. Children are a reward from God for all the beautiful things they provided to each other in the shared moments of life. Every obstacle in life that two people encounter should be overcome by joint forces. Hold your hands, look at yourself and at the same time say we can and we will. After that, nothing in life is impossible, let the power of love guide you through the waves of life. And if those waves are huge, you two can get over them.
Life as a book
Man must overcome his fears, he must consider life as a good opportunity to realize something beautiful. We have to understand life as a book, we print one page every day. As in every story, each page is filled with ups and downs. Life like any story or book cannot be ideal. Every mistake or fall must be a lesson for us, and we have to learn something from that lesson. Let’s be our own best teachers. Let’s not allow others to make decisions for us, we must listen and respect other people’s opinions, but we must not immediately accept it without our analysis. The very thought of how many ideas was destroyed and how many good projects or inventions were destroyed at the beginning because of someone else’s opinion is crazy. Words like ‘You can’t do it’ or ‘You don’t know’ We have to ignore right at the start.
If someone told you that your dream is impossible, what would you do? would you give up, or would you say to yourself: ‘That’s my dream. I feel it. I follow him too.’
We must be brave and take risks in life, because living life is risky in itself. Every step we take is risky. Therefore, if we have an idea that we believe in, we should be brave and take risks in order to realize it. Even if that idea fails, we will return to the same situation as we were in before that attempt to fulfill the idea. And in the process of fulfilling the idea, we need to do our best to make it happen, so that in the end we can admit to ourselves that a lot of effort was put in.
Don’t be afraid to be different
The majority opinion is a very dangerous thing, because as a black hole, it swallows most people and their personal opinions with these people. Most people with these procedures join the crowd, and those who stand out and express their opinion or an idea, whether it was correct or not, are noticed in the mass of people. Elders mostly give advice or instructions to younger people than you, and that’s a wonderful thing. But making decisions on someone else’s behalf is a very bad thing. Instructions such as enroll in that school can be better reformulated into that school, if you finish it, you can do it, you will get that diploma and you will have that knowledge. And an even more difficult sentence than this is why you typed it, because with that the person who was told it loses all the hopes he had.
Stop for a moment. Close your eyes and think when did you trust yourself and not others for the last time? Maybe today is the day you start writing a new page. the end.
